Life,
Love, Stress
By: Nakeem Grant
Have
you ever had trouble sleeping because you were angry at something or someone?
Do you come home from school or work feeling physically and mentally drained?
Well guess what? You’re stressing out. Stress is not something that should be
overlooked or pushed to the side. It can cause anxiety, depression, and can
lead to anger. Stress is an issue that more or less everyone deals with in some
point of their lives, but there are various methods that we can practice in
order to reduce and ultimately eliminate stress in our lives. I can relate to
stressing out pretty well because I get stressed at least once or twice a week.
Sometimes I put myself in a position where I overwhelm myself with tons of
schoolwork and little time to get it completed. Another instance of when I
stress out would be when I fail to do something correct the first time. It
turns out that stress is different for everyone in that we all respond
differently to stress. Some people might have strong physical responses to
stress while others (like me) may have strong mental responses.
Stress
is the body’s reaction to a change that requires a physical, mental, or
emotional adjustment. Stress can be hard to define because it affects each of
us differently. Stress can cause anxiety, insomnia, frustration, and other
mental issues of that sort. However, stress can also cause physical changes
such as sweaty hands, dizziness, and grinding your teeth. Although stress
doesn’t sound like a positive aspect, there are some effects that can be
somewhat helpful and beneficial. Feelings of anxiety could be compared to as
having the feeling of butterflies in your stomach. For example, winning a race
or kissing a significant other can put your mind and body through stress just
as much as losing a race or being rejected. Now that I’ve defined the true
meaning of stress, let’s take a look at a break down of different categories
and statistics involving stress.
Based
on whatcausesstress.org, more than
half of working adults and 47% of all Americans say that they are concerned
with the stress in their lives. Each person however has different reasons for
being stressed out. A scale known as the Holmes-Ray scale is used to measure
the level of stressful occurrences. Death of a spouse causes 100% stress in the
grieving member. Subsequently, the divorce process is at 73% on the scale. The
top five causes of stress in the U.S. are job pressure, money,
health, relationships, and poor nutrition. 76% percent of Americans state that
money and work are the leading causes of stress in their lives. Also, 77% of
Americans state that physical issues they deal with are caused by stress. It’s
clear to see that based on these statistics, stress is a prominent issue in
each of our lives to some extent. However, there are ways to deal with stress
and better your lives in the process.
There
are various techniques and methods that people can practice in order to reduce
the mental and physical aspects of stress. WebMD.com explains that one of the
best techniques of reducing stress is to meditate. Meditating helps to relax
your mind and ease those stressful thoughts. It can be any activity that helps
to keep your attention in the present moment. Another great technique is
picturing yourself relaxed. Picturing yourself relaxed can be great for people
that struggle with quieting their mind. The art of visualization (picturing
yourself on a quiet beach, a penthouse in New York City , etc.) can
help to keep thoughts away from any negative feelings.
In
the end, the emotional and physical adjustments that our body and mind goes
through are known as stress. In addition, I think it is safe to say that you
and I are not alone, knowing that 82% of Americans are also dealing with some
form of stress. Lastly, exercising on a daily basis, meditating, etc. are great
practices that can help to diminish the stress in our lives. To reiterate what
I stated earlier, we all deal with some form of stress. But I can’t stress
enough (no pun intended) that if we take the necessary steps towards
eradicating stress, it well better and benefit all of our lives.



